fuck, i peeked....
i peeked at my ex's blog. stupid, stupid, stupid.
i stopped reading after a paragraph or two but caught enough to see that he's writing about our s-e-x life. ewww, ewww, ewww...i still have that icky feeling, like i'm going to puke.
there are bloggers who know that he is writing about me and it grosses me out. for that matter, there are mutual friends of ours who read it and that really grosses me out!
and because i'm not supposed to be reading his blog, i can't ask him to please stop or defend myself when he says something untrue.
is it wrong of me to want him to get amnesia and forget we ever went out?
posted by ago-go @ 3:49 p.m.
13 Comments:
The bigger question here is, "What the fuck is wrong with this shithead that he feels the need to splash your EX sex life onto his blog?" What a big loser.
I agree with Andi. Is there anything we can do to make his life a living hell?
andi, i think he thinks he's being cathartic and journaling his innermost thoughts. but in my opinion, that's not something he should post online particularly when he's given his blog address out to friends who know me.
os, i don't think there's anything you can do as i don't want anyone else to be subjected to it because that would be soooo embarrassing!
in case you happen upon a blog of someone who talks about how he hasn't had any since his breakup 10 months ago, please close your eyes and back away from the page...for my sake.
It's not wrong at all. Fucker - is any of it negative? We can all go over there and post -'Man, she sounds like a hot piece of ass - what was she doing with YOU' and stuff.
Sorry, girl, men suck. Hard.
aughra, i only read two paragraphs and then i freaked out and had to leave. there was some stuff about bad sex and about the last time he had good sex...too much information regardless. if i know him as well as i think i do, there was also something self-pitying about how he thinks i cheated on him (which i didn't). argh!
oh that sucks big time. can you anonymously leave comments? I guess he might be able to figure out it was you. Can you get some of your mutuals to leave comments? DO NOT GO BACK THERE~ You will only feel worse and things like that are addicting no matter how much you DON"T want to read them!
and on another note...how long ago did you break up? shouldn't he be moving on or something by now?
steph & bee, i know , i know...i just folded because i saw a snarky comment from him.
and we've been broken up since early december 2004...yes, he should be moving on by now! my god.
Unfortuantly you can't stop him from posting so I would say for you to do your best to stay away from his blog. He sounds like a real a**
Art, we have suggested she stay away. I know how this is sort of. There are blogs I tell myself I will never view again and then a week later I am back.
If it's someone you knew intimately I would guess the lure of checking the site is harder to overcome. Best of luck Ago.
ago, I am torn with this because I recently asked my ex to stop reading my blog and he became completely unglued and wrote me the meanest email ever. I was extra pissed off after that, because...fuck you, it's my blog. I never named names, and never lied.
Save your feelings, and don't look at it again.
megan, i know i shouldn't read it...if he would just bugger off from the rest of my blogland friends it would be easier to stay away. i would never send him a mean email about it though.
i think i wouldn't care so much if he hadn't given his blog address to anyone and everyone who ever knew us as a couple as well as to people who i still hang out with as friends, and then write crap about our sex life and the demise of our relationship. you never did that.
the more i think about it, the more this clarifies that i don't think i want to be friends with him anymore.
This is true. Once other people are involved, it's just ugly.
Steve and I had no mutual friends. He kept me away from his friends, and all my friends stuck by me after the breakup.
fucking loser. if i knew the blog i'd make his life miserable. so miserable he'd have to ban me.
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